Weston, FL (October 15th, 2006) I
understand the hopelessness, helplessness, frustration and
desperation felt by parents with troubled teens. I've been
there.
In 2000 I enrolled my daughter in the World Wide Association
of Specialty Programs and Schools (WWASPS) program, Carolina
Springs Academy in South Carolina. Six months after she was
enrolled I learned she was hospitalized without my
knowledge. With that information compounded by the strange
seminars I was mandated to attend, I withdrew her.
After I discovered the abuse my daughter endured and spoke
with others that told stories of their abuse, I felt
compelled to speak out and to turn a negative into a
positive. I created my organization, Parents Universal
Resource Experts, Inc. (P.U.R.E.™) in January 2001, and launched
my website
www.helpyourteens.com. In an effort to help other
desperate parents from falling into the same trap I had
fallen into, I shared my daughter's story and my story on
the website.
In January 2002 WWASPS sued me and my organization for
defamation in an attempt to silence me. After over two years
of litigation, I won in a jury trial. They appealed and
again I won the appeal and continue to share my story today.
In September 2002 Carey Bock, a mother with twins contacted
me asking for help to get her children out of a WWASPS
program. I supplied her with information of other parents
and a consultant who had recently visited there.
In October 2002 Carey Bock had her sons removed from the
WWASPS program with a bodyguard and camera crews.
In November 2002 Carey asked me for private information
about minor children to use in a film she hoped to profit
from. I refused to give her the names, as I felt it was an
invasion of the children's privacy. As a result of this,
began an all-out campaign to destroy me over the Internet.
She committed Internet Defamation and Invasion of Privacy.
She had absolutely nothing to substantiate her postings or
her e-mails.
The ironic twist was in 2003 Carey Bock contacted WWASPS'
attorneys and negotiated a price for her hard drive which
contained private information of many families involved in
the fight against WWASPS and private e-mails from me that
she thought would incriminate me. She was paid $12,500 by
WWASPS for her hard drive although, according to her
deposition she gave for the WWASPS v Sue Scheff lawsuit in
December 2003 she asked for $100,000.00 (according to her
deposition), however accepted $12,500.00. She accepted money
from the same organization she claims harmed her children.
That same year Carey Bock started a hate campaign against me
on Internet Forums. She received a copy of my private
deposition taken for the case WWASPS had against me. In her
deposition she states the transcript just appeared in her
mailbox (no return address). Since the WWASPS attorney's, my
attorney's and I were the only ones with copies, it was easy
to assume who gave them to her. This deposition transcript
contained highly confidential and private information about
my children and me. Carey Bock began posting portions of the
deposition transcript on the Internet, threatening to post
the entire transcript online.
In December 2003 I hired an attorney in an attempt to stop
this from happening. In January 2003 Carey retained the same
law firm that represents WWASPS (again the same organization
that abused her sons) to defend her. In her deposition taken
in 2005 she claimed she did not know who paid for her legal
fees.
During Bock's campaign to further discredit me, many people
begged her to stop. I did not personally contact her because
she was escalating out of control and started posting all of
my e-mails publicly, including my private, unlisted
telephone number. I was fearful to have any contact with her
since it was obvious she would stop at nothing. The attempts
of others to get her to stop only escalated the vicious
attacks.
In August 2004 I defeated WWASPS in a jury trial in Salt
Lake City, Utah. I did not commit defamation and I had the
evidence to substantiate my Internet postings.
In June 2006 Carey Bock's legal counsel withdrew from the
Internet Defamation and Invasion of Privacy lawsuit. The
Judge postponed the trial to give Ms. Bock ample time to
locate new counsel or represent herself. In July 2006 Carey
decided to ignore all court requests and my attorney's
telephone calls and mailings.
In September 2006 a Broward County jury spent two days in
court reviewing hundreds of defamatory e-mails and Internet
postings that were made by Carey Bock or as a result of the
campaign she started in an attempt to destroy me. They
listened to five witnesses, including an Educational and
Forensic Psychologist. They deliberated for hours and came
back with a verdict of $11.3 million, $5 million in punitive
damages.
I was as shocked as everyone else with the verdict the jury
returned. The jury shared with me their desire to send a
strong message to others that you simply cannot destroy the
lives of others over the Internet. This speaks volumes and I
feel vindicated.
Media have taken this story and run with it before finding
out the facts of this case. They portray Carey Bock as a
Katrina victim who feels she can never speak out again and
who was not able to tell her side of the story. Though it is
true she is a Katrina victim, she is not your typical
Katrina victim. She lived in a nice apartment in League
City, TX, while her home was repaired and while she
continued to work. I understand all too well, having been a
victim of Hurricane Andrew and Hurricane Wilma myself.
However, she is not the typical Katrina victim we all saw on
the news where people were truly desolate and truly lost
everything they owned. Furthermore, Katrina does not excuse
her from her illegal actions.
The misconception that Bock was without representation or
couldn't afford it is simply another smoke screen in an
attempt to condone what she did. Carey Bock was represented
by a prestigious law firm in Florida for over 2 years. When
they withdrew from her case she had ample time to find new
counsel or represent herself. After 2+ years of litigation
anyone that believes it would simply go away, in my opinion,
is ignorant. In Bock's case, it seems it was arrogance and
that she simply did not care anymore.
When my attorney, David Pollack, called her to discuss
options she was belligerent and hung up on him. He tried
again a week later, and she disconnected her phone. The
Broward County Clerk's Office, as well as David Pollack,
continually sent her notices regarding trial dates it
seems she made a conscious decision to ignore them. Some
were returned. She claims she moved back to Louisiana. We
wonder if she intentionally did not submit a forwarding
address. The trial was postponed for 2 months in an attempt
to give her adequate notice.
It has been a long past 5 years however the victory of both
trials have brought me vindication. The fact that I have
been on both sides of the fence brings my story full circle.
My book, Wits End! is a place many parents end up when
dealing with a difficult teen, as I did. It is also a place
I ended up while defending myself. This book will chronicle
both trials as well as much more. Look for it in spring of
2008.
On July 25, 2007 the judge in this upheld this judgment.
Carey Bock hired a new lawyer and attempted to get the
judgment set aside and failed.
How free is Freedom of Speech? Very free, but it won't
condone defamation.