It’s not natural to outlive your child, especially to suicide.
September is National Suicide Prevention Month however this topic is one that needs attention 365 days a year.
Kids In The House offers a library of videos by experts to help educate parents on teen suicide prevention. Today’s generation of online peer pressure in combination with offline only complicates our teen’s stress and anxiety. The world of cyberspace has created a new level of concern for many parents – and they must continue to be in touch with their teen’s emotional lives both offline and online. It’s why your offline chats are so important – frequently.
American Foundation for Suicide offers the following warning signs for parents of teens and youth:
- Take it seriously, even if your friend brushes it off
- Suicidal ideation (continual suicidal thoughts) is not typical and reflects a larger problem
- An angry friend is better than a dead friend
- Ask, listen, tell, if the threat is immediate stay with the person
- Bring friend to a trusted adult. If they don’t know what to do or don’t take it seriously find another adult
- Be a good listener but remember suicidal ideation reflects a bigger underlying problem such as depression, substance problems, abuse, problem-solving difficulties. You can listen but they need to speak to a professional.
- 30% of attempters tell someone before, many don’t tell anyone after.
- When some talks to you, that is the moment for intervention
- With each suicide attempt, risk of suicide increases
- Warning Signs
- Change in mood- sadness, anxiety, irritability
- change in behavior- isolation
- Change in sleep
- Change in appetite
- Increase in aggression or impulsiveness
- Feeling hopeless, worthless
- Saying things like “No one will miss me” or “You’ll be better off” (feeling like a burden)
- Feeling ashamed or humiliated or desperation, as after a break up or test
- Collecting means
- Talking about wanting to kill themselves
- Drop in grades
- Risk taking
- Giving away prized possessions
Be an educated parent, you will have safer and healthier teens.
If you believe your teen is struggling or suffering with any of the above and have exhausted all your local resources, you may want to consider residential therapy. Contact us for more information.