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By Danny Prior, FL
July 2004
My name is Danny Prior and I am a graduate of Carolina Springs
Academy. My story starts off on November 3, 2000 at 7:30 in the morning
when my mom woke me up and I remember seeing her crying and she told me
that I was going to be going with these two guys to a boarding school in
South Carolina. My first reaction was to roll back over since I was
really tired so I didn't pay attention to my mom. I rolled back over and
the next thing I know I was being drug out of my bed by these 2 guys
(Mr. Kenny and Mr. Billy) I'd never seen before. I heard my mom running
across the house crying. I was thrown on the ground and handcuffed. They
picked me up and helped me put shorts on which they took the belt out of
so I couldn't run. They took the shoelaces out of my shoes because my
mom told them I was fast. They walked me out of my house into a car
waiting in the garage, where from there we drove to the airport, flew to
Atlanta and then drove a few hours up to South Carolina.
I didn't know exactly where I was going because they didn't talk much
to me. I was really shocked at what was happening because if it weren't
for my mom waking me up I would of thought I was being kidnapped. I
remember Mr. Kenny telling me that I was going to a Specialty Boarding
School and I asked him how long I was going to be there. He told me he
did not know. I remember being really upset about not being able to say
goodbye to my girlfriend or my brother of any of my friends. Mr. Kenny
assured me that I could call them as soon as I got there and tell them
where I was. He also told me they had some really pretty girls up
there.
After a short plane ride and a long ride in an old broken down truck
bouncing around with handcuffs on, we finally got there. From what I was
told on the way over it didn't seem like it was going to be to bad,
that's why I wondered why they needed handcuffs but as soon as I got out
of the truck and they got me in a little shed with 3 staff members I
realized that something was wrong about this. I was told to take my
clothes off and they gave me green sweat pants and a green shirt, both
with the CSA logo. I asked Mr. Kenny where the phone was so I could call
my girlfriend, one of the other staff members in there started laughing
hysterically. I wondered why but soon realized that there were no phones
there and that I was at a place I was going to hate but I still had
little idea of where I really was.
The first day I was there I was assigned a buddy to teach me all of
the rules and he started telling me the truth about the place. I thought
I was at a school…not some kind of hellish boot camp. He started going
over the rules with me and to me they were ridiculous. You couldn't talk
without permission from a staff member, you had to ask to use the
bathroom, there was no TV, no phones, I remember I got there when the
kids were in school time and they brought me in and sat me down.
Everyone was so quiet so I started talking and my buddy told me I
couldn't talk. I thought he was crazy, I said, "What do you mean I can't
talk? I can talk whenever the hell I want to talk." He just kind of
shrugged his shoulders and said," you'll find out."
I got up and went to find the nearest staff and the staff saw me and
yelled, "What the hell are you doing?" I said I want to talk to Mr. Dan
(who was my family rep, I was told he talked to my parents). I was told
I couldn't and I started getting upset because I wanted to know what the
hell was going on…. where was I? Why can't I call my girlfriend? Why
can't I talk? I had so many questions I started to get really
frustrated. One of the staff members grabbed me and pulled me outside
and said, "I know you're new but you're in OUR world now, not yours.
Your mom and dad couldn't handle you so we will and we can. You follow
our rules and do as we say…you got it?" I said no I don't get it, you
guys cant keep me here and I started to walk away from the school and by
this time it attracted the attention of 4 other staff members. They
grabbed me and slammed me against the wall and told
me that this was the last freebee they were giving me. They instructed
me to shut the hell up and go sit down with the rest of the kids. I did
and right there I gave in to them with no choice, I remember thinking
this can't be real. That was the start to my hell like experience at
Carolina Springs Academy.
I'm a smart kid, I learn real quickly. In order to get out of there
you must move up the levels and graduate the program. Sounds easy,
right? It's not. The staff there is made up of a bunch of illiterate
morons that I really bet half of them could not recite the alphabet for
you if you asked them to. The only way they know how to deal with your
problems is with physical force and that's how they get
you to comply with the rules. It makes me sick when I go on WWASP's
website and read about how they run their programs and how the kids seem
to enjoy their stays at the programs. It is unbelievable to me that they
are even allowed to promote themselves in that way. The programs are run
more like prison camps. The school there is a joke. The teachers don't
teach. They sit at a desk where you have to sign up to even talk to
them. You'll be lucky to get to talk to them once a week for 10 minutes.
I know a lot of the parents don't visit these places before they send
their kids off. If you are a parent and thinking about sending your kid
off and you don't believe me…go see for yourself the shape of the
facility. Ask them to talk with the teachers, ask them if you can follow
the group around for a couple hours and see how each day is lived. If I
learned anything out of this whole program it is I learned to lie. I
talked to countless parents that came there to look at the place when I
was an upper level. I had to sit there and lie to them, tell them that
it's a good experience and I have learned so much because right there
next to them is a staff member and my family rep watching every word I
say to make sure I say the right things.
On top of just the total isolation from the whole outside world, the
conditions there in which the program is run is just terrible. There
were countless times I've seen kids "passively" restrained for the most
smallest of rules broken including talking at meal time or not getting
up in the 10 seconds you have to get up out of your bed into a straight
line in height order and heel to toe with the person in front of you. I
put passively in quotations because to them passively consists of
usually at least 3 staff members being involved in one or more holding
the kid still while the other twist their arm
behind their back up until it touches their ear. They do this in OP,
which stands for Observation Placement, which is where the staff members
dish out most of the physical punishment. I've seen every
single staff member there involved in restraining a kid for reasons that
are ridiculous…as a matter of fact I'm going to stop using the word
restraining and use the word abusing because that's exactly what it is,
abuse in my opinion.
The whole time I was there I never saw a kid go at a staff member or
pose any kind of physical threat to a staff member which is the only
times restraints like the one I talked about with the arm to the ear are
supposed to be used. Some staff even gets a kick out of it. One staff
member Mr. Mark used to think it was funny to just come up and grab you
by your neck and squeeze the hell out of it, and for why? I think
because it made him feel like a bigger man picking on kids half his size
but I guess I'll never know. Sometimes you would hear screaming,
and I mean horrific screaming coming from the OP building
and it broke your heart when your friend was in there getting abused and
you could do nothing about it. I remember my friend who's name I don't
want to use without his permission came back from OP with bruises
all over his arm, chest and back from getting punched and
kicked from one of the staff there.
Not only the restraints but also the food was terrible and in very
short supply. I remember for a couple months after I got out I
couldn't even eat a full meal because my stomach had gotten so used to
eating such small amounts of food. I remember a kid ate a piece of
cardboard in protest of the food we were being served. At meal times,
you are not even allowed to look around…you look down at your food with
your feet flat on the floor facing straight ahead and your elbows off
the table, there was no talking, no non-verbal communication or getting
up for any reason. This is how it was most of the day. Talking was not
permitted for I would say about 90% of the day. Through all the
struggles I faced I knew I had to keep following the rules and move up
the levels to get out but it was hard with so many ridiculous rules and
even more ridiculous punishments. My family rep criticized every letter
I wrote home. If it was a good letter my family rep told my parents I
was manipulating them, if it was a bad letter it was proof I needed to
be there, you couldn't win with these guys.
I spent a total of 11 months and 19 days at Carolina Springs Academy
and graduated which is very quick to graduate. Ever since I have been
out 3 and half years ago I have been trying to get my voice out there
about these WWASP programs and I will talk anyone's ear off who will
listen to me. Please if you have any questions, I mean any question at
all or if you are just thinking about sending your kid to one of these
programs or if you do have a kid there email me…I would love to talk to
you. I'm not trying to seem innocent like I was a great kid and all
this…I did have problems, I still do…everybody does and I did need some
changes in my life but believe me…please believe me when I tell you that
these programs are not what they advertise…. the
stuff that goes on behind those closed doors is kept very secret and
it's just starting to come out now. They claim to help families heal
but you know what…. I'm a graduate or what they call; "fully-baked"
and I have no relationship with my parents anymore. I don't even
talk to them because of what I went through. They can't understand it
and don't want to. So to think they claim to heal families but it
destroyed mine, if you want to send your kid to a place where they will
be mistreated and just warehoused for as long as you want to pay, then
WWASP is your program. If you truly want to help your troubled
teen…really look into some other programs that are a more credible….and
I thank you for your time reading my story and I would be more than
happy to answer any questions you may have. Just email me at
dannyandkaty@netzero.com
Sincerely,
Danny Prior, FL |